Would You ever

bundybunnie · 23-12-2006, 11:07

Hey guys and girls just a quick question i been thinking bout alot latley,

would you ever, donate sperm, or b a surregant, mother for one of ur sibilings or close friends who couldnt have there own children???

if it was for my sister i wouldnt think twice id say yes, cause i know id still b apart of the childs life....

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Stace · 23-12-2006, 11:18

ahh would consider being a sperm donor, possibly, hey gotta spread the good genes

, but only for a sperm bank or something, for a sibling? no thats incest isnt it. hmmm close friend would be hard, but i supose it could work...

Melzy · 23-12-2006, 11:27

i would be a surrogate mum now worries, as long as i had had my kids first. a friend of mine can not have a baby due to a kidney transplant and i have tole here i would carry a baby for her.

bundybunnie · 23-12-2006, 11:42

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Originally Posted by stace

ahh would consider being a sperm donor, possibly, hey gotta spread the good genes

, but only for a sperm bank or something, for a sibling? no thats incest isnt it. hmmm close friend would be hard, but i supose it could work...

its not inscest if ur inpregnating ur brothers WIFE....

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Sharpy · 23-12-2006, 11:48

id do it if i got paid, who wouldnt more of me running around? gawd help yas all!

Stace · 23-12-2006, 12:47

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Originally Posted by bundybunnie

its not inscest if ur inpregnating ur brothers WIFE....

haha yeh, what if he doesnt know about it tho? but yeh if i had a brother and he couldnt have kids then yeh i probably would.

cosmostorm · 23-12-2006, 13:54

the whole thing is just too wrong.... i guess im a bit of a prude at times and i just wouldnt be comfortable with any of it...

MrsPotatoHead · 23-12-2006, 14:13

I've tossed around the idea of becoming a surogate mother for an overseas couple (In Australia it is illegal to get paid to be a surrogate, overseas, the average fee for surrogacy is $100,000-160,000).
The BF was far less than supportive!! Told me I was crazy! So that idea has been shoved down the drain lol.
If my best friend wanted kids and couldn't have them herself I would consider being a surrogate, for no fee of course.

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Nudge · 26-12-2006, 12:23

as i have been trough the whole ivf seen booth my kids r ivf and seening what people go through it the best gift you could give someone who cant have kids throughh sperm or eggs i sign up if i could but ever time see add in paper my wife wrights ini could not imagine go through life with out kids

Peta23 · 26-12-2006, 20:21

i would do it after i have my own kids

Bravo Rachie · 27-12-2006, 14:17

wow... i was only just thinking about this today!!!

both of my step sisters are much older than me, one is 37 almost 38 and the other is 35... im the baby at 25.
one has decided that she dosnt want kids, and the other wants them but is not finantually able to support a kid... i have told both of them (even the one that dosnt want kida cos she may change her mind) that if ever they want or need me to be their oven, then il do it anytime their ready..
i have polycystic ovarys and am lucky to ovulate now at most 4 times a year, there were a few years when i didint even get my period at all... haha it was great! i was told i couldnt have kids without going through all the bullshit and doctors (although already proven wrong at one stage). I was told 2 years ago that my cysts had then turned cancerious and have to be burnt off.... or if too mych damage was done take the ovarys out all together. that was a long time ago... and i havnt been back to the doctors yet... although something today while i was thinking of all of this made me call the doctors and book back into the specialist. but maybe its too late for me.. maybe its not?? And really... im not ready for my own anyway, if at all... maybe ive already thrown away my one chance of havin a kid... if i have, then i'd sure as hell apreaciate the help of another woman, cos id be the oven for anyone who was in desprate want of children.

Bravo Rachie · 27-12-2006, 14:21

P.S.... its not incest unless youve been with your 3rd cousin... another 3rd cousin and then start eyein' off the 1st cousin... OOPS.

sorry but my cuz is hot!!!

Sharpy · 27-12-2006, 14:35

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Originally Posted by Bravo Rachie

P.S.... its not incest unless youve been with your 3rd cousin... another 3rd cousin and then start eyein' off teh 1st cousin... OOPS.

sorry but my cuz is hot!!!

its all good rach!

my cousins are hot too.......................

thats nearly as bad as Borat!

Bravo Rachie · 28-12-2006, 14:45

yeha havent seen borat yet.... looks good tho.

Sharpy · 28-12-2006, 15:21

TIS GOOD!

is NICE!

i luved it, but my gf didnt much....... lol

ArnieBoy · 28-12-2006, 16:29

Obviously for those who say they'd do it if they got paid...haven't really got the heart to do it in the 1st place.
I've thought about this before and I feel deeply for those who can't or struggle having babies. Being a Mother myself (of a 3.5 month old) its obviously more emotional then others.
But personally I couldn't do it. Having a baby is such a special thing and to me so personal. I love looking at my daughter and saying to myself that she's all mine.
A huge pat on the back for those who do, do it. Amazing people and deserve alot of thanks.

Nudge · 28-12-2006, 16:34

thats rite for people who can just have kids at the drop of a hat it diffrent too some on ivf there all the needles test then or the poking and proding there the six week wait too see if it works so any one thinking about it good ya just loook up the web ivf web site there people waiting who need help

gwalch · 28-12-2006, 16:35

It's a big pot of worms this topic.
You read about so many families that break up over something like this.. but at the same time.. there are also the happy endings.
All depends on what is happening at the time you are asked.
I like the whole concept.. but... I dunno.

MrsPotatoHead · 01-01-2007, 18:14

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Originally Posted by ArnieBoy

Obviously for those who say they'd do it if they got paid...haven't really got the heart to do it in the 1st place.

There’s no difference whether a Surrogate gets paid or not, there’s still a new baby as the outcome.
I’m sure there are hundreds of infertile couples that would pay anything to bring an addition to their family. If Australian Surrogate mums were allowed to get paid there wouldn’t be the huge waiting list for babies like there is now as more women would be prepared to sacrifice their time and career to give another couple a child.

Maree · 23-05-2007, 14:27

I have offered to carry for my best mate if he ever decided that he had found his ideal partner and wanted to start a family (he likes blokes by the way, love that boy to pieces!) I have told him for as long as I can remember that if he ever wanted kids then I would help him do that if he wanted me to. I think it used to get him a bit that he would never have a family, but he can, it will just take a little bit more to make it happen.

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23-12-2006, 11:07	#1
bundybunnie Status: Feral Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: picton Posts: 132 Rep Power: 5	Would You ever Hey guys and girls just a quick question i been thinking bout alot latley, would you ever, donate sperm, or b a surregant, mother for one of ur sibilings or close friends who couldnt have there own children??? if it was for my sister i wouldnt think twice id say yes, cause i know id still b apart of the childs life.... __________________ you can take me outta the country but u cant take the country outta me.....:)

23-12-2006, 11:18	#2
Stace Status: Beaut Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: woodanilling Posts: 602 Rep Power: 4	Re: Would U ever ahh would consider being a sperm donor, possibly, hey gotta spread the good genes , but only for a sperm bank or something, for a sibling? no thats incest isnt it. hmmm close friend would be hard, but i supose it could work... __________________ If youre gonna play the game, boy, ya gotta learn to play it right.

23-12-2006, 11:27	#3
Melzy Status: Beaut Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: kalgoorlie Posts: 342 Rep Power: 6	Re: Would U ever i would be a surrogate mum now worries, as long as i had had my kids first. a friend of mine can not have a baby due to a kidney transplant and i have tole here i would carry a baby for her. __________________ Where's the fun in being "normal' LIVE LOVE LAUGH

23-12-2006, 11:48	#5
Sharpy Status: Hardcore Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Alice Springs Posts: 1,940 Rep Power: 5	Re: Would U ever id do it if i got paid, who wouldnt more of me running around? gawd help yas all! __________________ SHARPY N DAVE UTECLUB MEMBERS WANTED Enquire within

23-12-2006, 13:54	#7
cosmostorm Status: December 2006 Best BNS / Rural Ute Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: wagga Posts: 260 Rep Power: 4	Re: Would You ever the whole thing is just too wrong.... i guess im a bit of a prude at times and i just wouldnt be comfortable with any of it...

23-12-2006, 14:13	#8
MrsPotatoHead Status: Beaut Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Blowhard Vic Posts: 773 Rep Power: 16	Re: Would You ever I've tossed around the idea of becoming a surogate mother for an overseas couple (In Australia it is illegal to get paid to be a surrogate, overseas, the average fee for surrogacy is $100,000-160,000). The BF was far less than supportive!! Told me I was crazy! So that idea has been shoved down the drain lol. If my best friend wanted kids and couldn't have them herself I would consider being a surrogate, for no fee of course. __________________ Have a YARN - Young Australian Rural Network www.yarn.gov.au - A great way to keep in touch, share ideas, get informed, and strengthen networks. Last edited by MrsPotatoHead; 26-12-2006 at 13:58..

26-12-2006, 12:23	#9
Nudge Status: Feral Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: gippsland Posts: 126 Rep Power: 5	Re: Would You ever as i have been trough the whole ivf seen booth my kids r ivf and seening what people go through it the best gift you could give someone who cant have kids throughh sperm or eggs i sign up if i could but ever time see add in paper my wife wrights ini could not imagine go through life with out kids

26-12-2006, 20:21	#10
Peta23 Status: Petey.. Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Cuballing Posts: 1,437 Rep Power: 0	Re: Would You ever i would do it after i have my own kids __________________ Shoulda Woulda Coulda

27-12-2006, 14:17	#11
Bravo Rachie Status: Hardcore Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Heathcote Posts: 2,143 Rep Power: 7	Re: Would You ever wow... i was only just thinking about this today!!! both of my step sisters are much older than me, one is 37 almost 38 and the other is 35... im the baby at 25. one has decided that she dosnt want kids, and the other wants them but is not finantually able to support a kid... i have told both of them (even the one that dosnt want kida cos she may change her mind) that if ever they want or need me to be their oven, then il do it anytime their ready.. i have polycystic ovarys and am lucky to ovulate now at most 4 times a year, there were a few years when i didint even get my period at all... haha it was great! i was told i couldnt have kids without going through all the bullshit and doctors (although already proven wrong at one stage). I was told 2 years ago that my cysts had then turned cancerious and have to be burnt off.... or if too mych damage was done take the ovarys out all together. that was a long time ago... and i havnt been back to the doctors yet... although something today while i was thinking of all of this made me call the doctors and book back into the specialist. but maybe its too late for me.. maybe its not?? And really... im not ready for my own anyway, if at all... maybe ive already thrown away my one chance of havin a kid... if i have, then i'd sure as hell apreaciate the help of another woman, cos id be the oven for anyone who was in desprate want of children. __________________ PEEP SHOW: Dosn't mean getting to see your presents before Christmas! BACK IN THE GAME!

27-12-2006, 14:21	#12
Bravo Rachie Status: Hardcore Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Heathcote Posts: 2,143 Rep Power: 7	Re: Would You ever P.S.... its not incest unless youve been with your 3rd cousin... another 3rd cousin and then start eyein' off the 1st cousin... OOPS. sorry but my cuz is hot!!! __________________ PEEP SHOW: Dosn't mean getting to see your presents before Christmas! BACK IN THE GAME!

28-12-2006, 14:45	#14
Bravo Rachie Status: Hardcore Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Heathcote Posts: 2,143 Rep Power: 7	Re: Would You ever yeha havent seen borat yet.... looks good tho. __________________ PEEP SHOW: Dosn't mean getting to see your presents before Christmas! BACK IN THE GAME!

28-12-2006, 15:21	#15
Sharpy Status: Hardcore Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Alice Springs Posts: 1,940 Rep Power: 5	Re: Would You ever TIS GOOD! is NICE! i luved it, but my gf didnt much....... lol __________________ SHARPY N DAVE UTECLUB MEMBERS WANTED Enquire within

28-12-2006, 16:29	#16
ArnieBoy Status: Feral Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: SOUTH BURRACOPPIN Posts: 113 Rep Power: 4	Re: Would You ever Obviously for those who say they'd do it if they got paid...haven't really got the heart to do it in the 1st place. I've thought about this before and I feel deeply for those who can't or struggle having babies. Being a Mother myself (of a 3.5 month old) its obviously more emotional then others. But personally I couldn't do it. Having a baby is such a special thing and to me so personal. I love looking at my daughter and saying to myself that she's all mine. A huge pat on the back for those who do, do it. Amazing people and deserve alot of thanks.

28-12-2006, 16:34	#17
Nudge Status: Feral Member Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: gippsland Posts: 126 Rep Power: 5	Re: Would You ever thats rite for people who can just have kids at the drop of a hat it diffrent too some on ivf there all the needles test then or the poking and proding there the six week wait too see if it works so any one thinking about it good ya just loook up the web ivf web site there people waiting who need help

28-12-2006, 16:35	#18
gwalch Status: Feral Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: Geelong Posts: 121 Rep Power: 6	Re: Would You ever It's a big pot of worms this topic. You read about so many families that break up over something like this.. but at the same time.. there are also the happy endings. All depends on what is happening at the time you are asked. I like the whole concept.. but... I dunno.

23-05-2007, 14:27	#20
Maree Status: Be rude not to!! Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Dalwallinu Posts: 389 Rep Power: 4	Re: Would You ever I have offered to carry for my best mate if he ever decided that he had found his ideal partner and wanted to start a family (he likes blokes by the way, love that boy to pieces!) I have told him for as long as I can remember that if he ever wanted kids then I would help him do that if he wanted me to. I think it used to get him a bit that he would never have a family, but he can, it will just take a little bit more to make it happen.

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