Fighting With Friends

UteGirl70 · 15-03-2007, 12:00

Fighting with friends is, at the best of times very unsettling.. but have you ever had the unsavoury task of fighting/arguing via SMS?!
Texting can be taken out of context most of the time, but when you're having a spat, it seems even worse..

What do you think...is it a cop out to have a discussion/fight via sms rather than seeing someone face to face?

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Quinny · 15-03-2007, 12:16

Its always better to sort stuff out face to face rather than via a telephone or messaging, Stops the other person from reading more into it thats not there & you tend to know exactly where u stand

Peta23 · 15-03-2007, 12:27

face to face, but sometimes i think its better to do it over the phone..cos i hate seeing my best mate cry

Matt_91 · 15-03-2007, 12:32

it's best to talk face to face cos u can explain exactly what you mean and not get mixed up

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country_girl_82 · 15-03-2007, 12:36

id say face to face cos nuthing can be takin the wrongway but im so bad at saying how i feel face to face i tend to hide behind my phone but thats me eevery one is diff

kdub · 15-03-2007, 12:56

Face to face is generally better but it is hard sometimes as people have their phones off, out of range etc. I hate confrontation and it is easier to write everything you want to say rather than blurting out what first comes to mind.

jojo · 15-03-2007, 14:37

I agree with you guys. its totaly wrong. id raver face to face it hurt more that way.ive been thru it before .I know wot its like ....A big Sorry kristy..

Kat · 15-03-2007, 16:37

hey
im goin through it to but at the same time fightin wit parents n its hard wen u mates wont talk to u face to face wen u know its best to do it that way.

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Burgs · 15-03-2007, 20:04

never had the text fightn problem cause never text message lol

doc · 17-03-2007, 13:59

i reckon its a load of crap arguing via sms
if you dont have the guts to say it to someones face, then dont bother saying it at all...

Octiris · 17-03-2007, 15:18

OHHH NO! IT IS BETTER FACE To FACE........ YOU IMAGINE THAT LATER!!!!!..... COMES THE RECONCILIATION HOW YOU EMBRACE IT And YOU KISS BY VIA SMS?...........THAT YES MY PREFERS BEFORE SO PLEASANT CONVERSATION TO OCCUR A GOOD COLD WATER SHOWER, I SAY TO LOWER The PRESSURE And NOT TO FEEL EXTRANGULAR DESIRE IT...........

15-03-2007, 12:00	#1 (permalink)
UteGirl70 Status: Addicted Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Adelaide South Australia Posts: 2,976 Rep Power: 7	Fighting With Friends Fighting with friends is, at the best of times very unsettling.. but have you ever had the unsavoury task of fighting/arguing via SMS?! Texting can be taken out of context most of the time, but when you're having a spat, it seems even worse.. What do you think...is it a cop out to have a discussion/fight via sms rather than seeing someone face to face? __________________ Utegirl70...somethings never change :D

15-03-2007, 12:16	#2 (permalink)
Quinny Status: Feral Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Moora Posts: 177 Rep Power: 4	Re: Fighting With Friends Its always better to sort stuff out face to face rather than via a telephone or messaging, Stops the other person from reading more into it thats not there & you tend to know exactly where u stand __________________ Certified Muck Runner

15-03-2007, 12:27	#3 (permalink)
Peta23 Status: Petey.. Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Cuballing Posts: 1,424 Rep Power: 4	Re: Fighting With Friends face to face, but sometimes i think its better to do it over the phone..cos i hate seeing my best mate cry __________________ Shoulda Woulda Coulda

15-03-2007, 12:32	#4 (permalink)
Matt_91 Status: Beaut utes.com Postaholic Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Gatton QLD Posts: 1,600 Rep Power: 3	Re: Fighting With Friends it's best to talk face to face cos u can explain exactly what you mean and not get mixed up __________________ SUCH IS LIFE- THE LAST WORDS OF NED KELLY BEFORE BEING HANGED

15-03-2007, 12:36	#5 (permalink)
country_girl_82 Status: Beaut Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: ballarat Posts: 663 Rep Power: 4	Re: Fighting With Friends id say face to face cos nuthing can be takin the wrongway but im so bad at saying how i feel face to face i tend to hide behind my phone but thats me eevery one is diff __________________ WE DID WHAT???..............ADAM BRAND

15-03-2007, 12:56	#6 (permalink)
kdub Status: Feral Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Mooroolbark Posts: 54 Rep Power: 3	Re: Fighting With Friends Face to face is generally better but it is hard sometimes as people have their phones off, out of range etc. I hate confrontation and it is easier to write everything you want to say rather than blurting out what first comes to mind.

15-03-2007, 14:37	#7 (permalink)
jojo Status: July Best Chicks Ute! Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: tongala Posts: 323 Rep Power: 3	Re: Fighting With Friends I agree with you guys. its totaly wrong. id raver face to face it hurt more that way.ive been thru it before .I know wot its like ....A big Sorry kristy..

15-03-2007, 16:37	#8 (permalink)
Kat Status: Beaut Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: TWMBA Posts: 713 Rep Power: 3	Re: Fighting With Friends hey im goin through it to but at the same time fightin wit parents n its hard wen u mates wont talk to u face to face wen u know its best to do it that way. __________________ "MUM AND DADS WORSE NIGHTMARE"

15-03-2007, 20:04	#9 (permalink)
Burgs Status: Beaut Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: Narangba Posts: 576 Rep Power: 2	Re: Fighting With Friends never had the text fightn problem cause never text message lol __________________ You can ride a horse to water but you cant drive a UTE to petrol when shes empty

17-03-2007, 13:59	#10 (permalink)
doc Status: May 2006 Best Chicks Ute! Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: - Posts: 2,423 Rep Power: 22	Re: Fighting With Friends i reckon its a load of crap arguing via sms if you dont have the guts to say it to someones face, then dont bother saying it at all... __________________ Psycho but Sweet... Evens things out

17-03-2007, 15:18	#11 (permalink)
Octiris Status: Hardcore Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Valencia, Venezuela Posts: 2,335 Rep Power: 6	Re: Fighting With Friends OHHH NO! IT IS BETTER FACE To FACE........ YOU IMAGINE THAT LATER!!!!!..... COMES THE RECONCILIATION HOW YOU EMBRACE IT And YOU KISS BY VIA SMS?...........THAT YES MY PREFERS BEFORE SO PLEASANT CONVERSATION TO OCCUR A GOOD COLD WATER SHOWER, I SAY TO LOWER The PRESSURE And NOT TO FEEL EXTRANGULAR DESIRE IT...........