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Originally Posted by wraithe I dont know how you can fit a timeline into things trashy but people quite often confuse love with lust....
The latter is what draws most people together and is what gets in the way of a good friendship...Lust does not make a great relationship or good friendship but can kill them both....
Love in a friendship can keep that friendship together through thick and thin...
and helps to make a great relationship...
People learn as they get older to distinguish between LUST and LOVE...
Don't confuse the 2 and things will go better for you, lust is just an urge where love is a lot more...
There are no exceptions to lust or love, they are different to each other... |
well said Kathy and kinda backs up my piont it would seem to me that the ppl that say the L word after a day ... i evan know some ppl who have said it befor they evan hooked up with them ... have not lurnt to desingwish betweel love and lust and puppy love,
it worys me when some one says it to me too fast becose i figer it takes a long time to get to know some one and if they say it i think thay have a image of wat they wont you to be and when you don't meet there expectashons there disapointed and it can corse problems...
ps im not really puting a time line on things but thats just my sort of thoughts and every partnershinp is differant ..