TanUteGirl

I guess it always depends on the individual situation but the closest thing I've ever had to "love at first sight" was after having composed a mental "list" of requirements for my next fella. I'd come out of a bad relationship and wanted something in particular if I was to enter another one. Met a guy who fit every single category on the list to a tee and couldn't believe my luck. Married the guy after 4 years of bliss and the marriage didn't last 3 years. Great learning experience! But you are definitely right Kathy, lust will render your common sense useless in the beginning so all of it will seem perfect, until you really get to know the person. If lust at first sight can last past the lust (say that really quickly...) then it probably will become love at first sight!?

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