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Originally Posted by Cowgirl Up I was told i had depression and an eating disorder when I was 16 i saw so many councellors that all said its ok i know what your going through.... fact is if they were watching there brother slowly and painfully die and going through the terrible teenage years without a mothers support they would probably be seeking counseling too...
So i don't like councellors and i refuse to go on anti depressants as i have heard they are addictive
I bet my depression and my eating disorder without help from them even though i still get a bit depressed sometimes
P.S i know one councellor has a broken nose from me woops |
There are some people who have a very strong nature and can fight and beat specific disorders. You sound like one of those people Samantha, and I take my hat of to you.
I looked after my mother for 23 years until she died in my arms. No counsellor could help me because I wouldn’t let him or her. I wasn’t listening to anyone. All I was saying is why can this be left to happen, why should my mother die, it’s not time for her to die.
Was I being selfish? Did I want her around longer because I feared I could not handle it when she would ultimately die? In my eyes it just wasn’t fair because she did so much for other without ever asking for anything in return…well maybe a hug and a kiss.
There are some situations that we just don’t have any control over.
I guess some counsellors just ‘counsel’ from a book, then, there are others who counsel from the book and from life experiences.